Issue 07-03-2025

The Friend

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Issue 07-03-2025

Thought for the week

Come hear: Anne Watson’s Thought for the Week

by Anne Watson

I am an elder in a large Meeting at the heart of a diverse university city, with many visitors and newcomers. Discerning the nature, and nurture, of spoken ministry, can be a challenge. 

Features

Gift of tongues: Frances Voelcker & Pen Waugh attend CCQW

by Frances Voelcker & Pen Waugh

For many years, Crynwyr Cymru/Quakers in Wales (CCQW) met three times a year in person. Since Covid, we have gathered online in February and in October, and in person in June. But Meeting online has its own hazards, including incompatible equipment, unfamiliarity with the translate function, and the neglect of rural areas when it comes to good internet provision.

Features

Truth ache: Oliver Müller on the similarities between science and religion

by Oliver Müller

‘So what has surprised you the most in your research?’ I asked. A professor of education had just summed up the work he did, researching how people learn. After a moment’s thought he answered that it was the similarity in how we learn scientific and religious concepts. No one could re-do all the work already done by other scientists, he said, so we were forced to trust what they have done – not just specific research but whole paradigms. There is a degree of blind faith involved. Religion, too, requires this trust, usually in the form of a belief in a higher being, scripture or church authority.

Features

Something about Mary: Simon Webb imagines a scene

by Simon Webb

The Durham Quaker Bible group is looking at the figure of Mary, the mother of Jesus. One of our number, who knows his way round the Good Book, took us through the mentions of this celebrated lady in the New Testament. 

Reviews

Head First: A psychiatrist’s stories of mind and body

by Deborah Jane

My interest in medicine came from my mother. She qualified as a doctor in the 1940s. In the 1960s she trained as a psychiatrist, specialising in hypnosis. At that time there was a pill for everything, so she was out of step with her colleagues. She believed most mental illness was a rational response to intolerable situations, and that listening to people was often more useful than giving them drugs.

Features

Poem: The day

by Steve Day

It has just broken 5:30am,

the day greyed over, my angled desk light pointing

away from me so it can’t dazzle the keyboard.

I am sat in my room with a silent drum kit

and a laptop containing the whole world.

For a short while, perhaps five minutes, no more than that,

I left this space to its own order and counted my breathing.

News

Meeting for Sufferings: March 2025 morning session

by Rebecca Hardy QCCIR Meeting for Sufferings (MfS) on 1 March opened with Advices & queries 17:…
News

Friends dismayed by military spending hike

by Rebecca Hardy Quakers have strongly criticised the government’s decision to increase military spending…
News

Pacifists highlight abuse within the army

by Rebecca Hardy Peace campaigners are calling on the UK government to hold the British armed forces to…
News

US Quakers block immigration policy

by Rebecca Hardy A Maryland court has blocked a US administration policy allowing immigration officers to…
News

Peace pole for Ukraine

by Rebecca Hardy Lancashire Friends installed a new peace pole on the third anniversary of the start of the…
News

Social media platform rejects word ‘peace’

by Rebecca Hardy Winchmore Hill Friends say they were inhibited from advertising an event on social media…
Q-eye

Eye - 07 March 2025

by Elinor Smallman Arts and worship The Quaker Arts Network (QAN) has been running a series of online…
Letters

Letters - 07 March 2025

by The Friend Trans welcome Quakers, at our best, observe a longstanding tradition of speaking up about,…

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