Issue 28-02-2025

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Issue 28-02-2025

Thought for the week

Gentle strokes: Dana Littlepage Smith’s Thought for the Week

by Dana Littlepage Smith

This morning in Meeting, a bunch of daffodils opened in the light. Each petal glowed, and it seemed to me that this is what we all long for: the birthright of being and belonging. The grace of having a safe space in which to be vulnerable and find unity feels increasingly precious.

Features

Food for thought? Ruth Jones wants us to consider how we feed our pets – and ourselves

by Ruth Jones

Animals play important roles in our lives, from working- and assistance-dogs to therapy horses – not forgetting, of course, our unconditionally-loved and loving companion pets. Indeed, we can sometimes feel more sentimentally generous towards the dog than to its homeless owner sitting on the pavement. Quarantine means our pets can freely travel the globe, while refugees cannot. 

Features

All things new: Tim Gee on a new strategy for Friends World Committee for Consultation

by Tim Gee

These last few weeks, I’ve been meditating on the word ‘new’. I’ve been guided by the Bible passage that will be used in the upcoming Friends World Committee for Consultation (FWCC) Section of the Americas gathering: ‘Look, I am doing something new’ (Isaiah 43:19). It’s been on my mind because the epistle from the 2024 Quaker World Plenary Meeting used the words ‘new’ or ‘renew’ ten times, citing 2 Corinthians 5:17 (‘Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!’). 

Features

Action replay: Teresa Belton on disruptive protest

by Teresa Belton

Last summer, five Just Stop Oil (JSO)protesters were imprisoned for climbing gantries on the M25, attempting to cause gridlock across southern England in protest against the government’s support for fossil fuels. I admired the bravery of the forty-five JSO protesters who climbed gantries on the motorway, who included at least two Quakers. Yet, their action, which was supported by other Friends, made me uncomfortable. I questioned whether ‘peaceful’ was a legitimate description. While they weren’t violent, their actions did cause personal harm. The disruptions led to a man missing his father’s funeral, and several others missing important hospital appointments. Can such actions truly be categorised as ‘peaceful’ like marches or rallies in Trafalgar Square? The term ‘highly disruptive’ would be more accurate.

Features

Poem: Making light of prisoners

by Steve Day

Good morning prisoners, our friend darkness

is here once more, taking all colours 

from your light.

News

QSA highlights ‘shocking’ funeral findings

by Rebecca Hardy Quaker Social Action (QSA) is calling for increases and reform to government funeral…
News

1723 needlework at Quaker Tapestry Museum

by Rebecca Hardy The Quaker Tapestry Museum has bought a historic Quaker embroidery sampler dating back to…
News

Theme for World Quaker Day

by Rebecca Hardy Friends World Committee for Consultation has announced that this year’s World Quaker Day…
News

QARN criticises new Home Office guidance

by Rebecca Hardy The Quaker Asylum and Refugee Network (QARN) has urged the government to reverse its…
Q-eye

Eye - 28 February 2025

by Elinor Smallman From Wandsworth to Worthing A group of Friends recently headed south for fellowship and…
Letters

Letters - 28 February 2025

by The Friend Back to the start? I’ve known I was gay since a teenager and I’ve trusted and loved…

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