Issue 08-08-2025

The Friend

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Issue 08-08-2025

Thought for the week

Flights of fancy: Ruth Audus’s Thought for the Week

by Ruth Audus

In the first week of the school holidays I flew with my new husband, his two teenage sons, and my two adult children, to Crete, for a fortnight’s holiday (pause to allow the collective gasp of horror from Friends who have taken the decision not to fly (and maybe don’t own a car – sorry, I have one of those, too)). This is maybe the last holiday we’ll have all together as the younger generation build their own lives.

Features

A personal odyssey: Jonathan Wooding’s debt to Yiddishkeit

by Jonathan Wooding

An old schoolfriend, who’s often challenged my religious and political affiliations, has recently been sweet enough to ask me about Quakers. I tend, rather immodestly, to present Quakerism as ‘the end of history’, rather in the way that Francis Fukuyama (in The End of History and the Last Man) presents parliamentary democracy. It is not, he says, inevitable, or utopian, but ‘the end-point of mankind’s ideological evolution’. That’s to say that it is sporadically occurring, and flawed, but, let’s face it, almost certainly the best that we can do. It is certainly better than coercion and obedience, or libertarian wilfulness and exploitation. 

Features

Lest we forget Gethsemane: Damian Entwistle on the setting aside of self

by Damian Entwistle

Unusually (for Marsden Friends) there were two pieces of vocal ministry on Sunday last.

Both spoke of resurrection; the first opened a door for the second.

Features

Failure to understand: Paul Oestreicher, eighty years after Hiroshima

by Paul Oestreicher

Eighty years ago, I was thirteen years old, riding my bike to school in Dunedin. 

I was worried. The morning news had told me that one single bomb, an atom bomb, had destroyed the city of Hiroshima. Of course I could not understand how that was possible. Maybe our physics teacher would explain. It was the second lesson of that day. Mr Roberts tried to help us to understand nuclear fusion, or was it fission? We didn’t really understand, and I still don’t. As he was leaving the classroom, he turned and said: ‘Boys, either we now abolish war, or war will abolish us.’

Features

This unique place: Tom Leimdorfer on Claverham

by Tom Leimdorfer

Down the narrow Meeting House Lane, about twelve miles south of Bristol, is a hidden gem of Quaker history.

Features

Surviving tidal forces: Tony D’Souza on the culture wars

by Tony D’Souza

Culture wars are nothing new. Nor is their ideology. They are always a reaction to something – a backlash, an oscillation between left and right, the tidal forces of political opinion going in and out, or mass psychology balancing itself.

Features

Poem: I am the song

by Jennie Osborne

I am the song that sings the bird,
the scent that starts the vole.
I am the chuckle that sings the stream,
the stillness that sounds the pool.
I am the juice that fleshes the pear,
the sweetness that also says tart.
I am the bell in the still air
that rings in the waiting heart.

News

Friends inspire MP on Afghan refugees

by Rebecca Hardy A non-Quaker MP raised questions in parliament about refugee policies after attending…
News

Stuart Masters to give Swarthmore Lecture

by Rebecca Hardy Woodbrooke has announced that Stuart Masters will give the 2026 Swarthmore Lecture.
News

Witness for children killed in Gaza

by Rebecca Hardy Bridgend Friends joined an event last month remembering the tens of thousands of children…
News

Eightieth anniversary of atomic bombings

by Rebecca Hardy Quakers around the country are marking the eightieth anniversary year of the atomic…
News

Southport Friends remember stabbing victims

by Rebecca Hardy Southport Meeting House joined other places of worship last week to mark the first…
Q-eye

Eye - 08 August 2025

by Elinor Smallman Advices & queries Eye invites you to consider select words from Advices & queries…
Letters

Letters - 08 August 2025

by The Friend Voicing dissent In the weekly newsletter from Britain Yearly Meeting, Suzanne Ismail says…

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