Issue 03-01-2025

The Friend

The Friend is a weekly magazine in which Friends speak to each other and to the wider world, offering their insight, ideas, news, nurture and inspiration.

Nurturing Quaker community, each issue offers a space for Friends to share their concerns, and to support each other in faith and witness.

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Issue 03-01-2025

Thought for the week

Open source: Kenneth Bird’s Thought for the Week

by Kenneth Bird

How much is my Quaker faith formed or influenced by my philosophical understanding – my theology, if you will? I have reached a convincement that there is a unifying principle which is underlying, sustaining – and also creatively informing – the cosmos.

Features

Original spin: Damian Entwistle says patriarchy must be resisted

by Damian Entwistle

The doctrine of original sin is commonly held in mainstream Christianity. And I think Friends too can recognise that humans do not always exercise their free will in ways that build one another up, or honour that dignity to which we are called as ‘children of God’. I would like us to consider a new way of looking at all this, and propose an idea of what original sin might actually be: patriarchy.

Features

Best practice? Richard Eddleston makes a case for ‘Centering Prayer’

by Richard Eddleston

There appears to be a growing interest in spirituality. This is not just among religious groups, but also among secular people, too. The rise of interest in practices like mindfulness is just one example. The 2021 census suggested that, for the first time, fewer Britons identified as religious than non-religious, but further investigation from the Christian think-tank Theos discovered that only about half of those who identify as non-religious (or ‘nones’) say they do not believe in God; a fifth say they definitely or probably believe in life after death; almost one in six (of the ‘nones’!) believe in the power of prayer.

Features

To the letters: Elinor Smallman on a change at the Friend

by Elinor Smallman

The Friend team has been moved by our readers’ support in the wake of the news (27 September) that we are facing an uncertain future.

Features

Where the heart is: Catriona Forrest on Meeting places

by Catriona Forrest

Some Friends are feeling heartbreak and anger over losing – or facing the possibility of losing – their Meeting house. It’s a feeling I have compassion for, but have not experienced. Not because my Meeting house is secure, but because my beloved Local Meeting has not had one for as long as I’ve been a Quaker – not for almost ninety years, although our Meeting dates back much further than that, all the way back to 1655. 

News

2024 news round-up

by Rebecca Hardy 2024 was a lively Quaker year, with Yearly Meeting swiftly followed by Friends World…
Reviews

Queering Contemplation: Finding queerness in the roots and future of contemplative spirituality

by Magnus Ramage Quakers are a queer people. Cassidy Hall defines ‘queer’ in two ways: one relates to…
Features

Poem: Perfect prayer

by Poonam Jain I tried to draw into myself, make a still inner space stealing glances at two others near…
Q-eye

Eye - 03 January 2025

by Elinor Smallman A model Meeting A young Friend’s model-making ability has captured a historic Meeting…
Letters

Letters - 03 January 2025

by The Friend QCEA The Quaker Council for European Affairs (QCEA) continues its unique mission to…

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