Issue 10-01-2025

The Friend

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Issue 10-01-2025

Thought for the week

Way to go: Lesley Richards’ Thought for the Week

by Lesley Richards

Some people say ‘a way will open’ or ‘the way will open’, but I know this phrase simply as ‘way will open’, without a definite or indefinite article. There aren’t many ways forward, and nor is there just one and only perfect way. In Quaker phraseology we mean sitting with something that will need to change, or need to be done, but that the way forward isn’t clear yet. We sit with it, in the faith that clarity will come. 

Features

Sex sex sex! Clive Ashwin looks at the evolution of sexual mores in British society

by Clive Ashwin

Having seized your attention with the title, and ensured that this is an article that everyone will read, let me proceed. If you don’t actually receive the Friend at home, but are reading it furtively at your local Meeting house, you might find a quiet corner where you can pretend to be reading more weighty articles, or the small ads.

Features

Real risks: Elizabeth Coleman on Quakers in the displaced persons camps of the DRC

by Elizabeth Coleman

In the displaced persons camps around Goma in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, there are about 460 Quakers – seventy-seven families; men, women and children. George Bani, a Quaker from Uvira in South Kivu, visited to report on the conditions, and what he found was very disturbing. 

News

Central presence: Jenny Haughton visits Ramallah

by Jenny Haughton

In mid-August 2024 I volunteered at Ramallah Friends School (RFS). Arriving at Tel Aviv airport I walked past a line of posters of loved ones lost in the 7 October assault. Within fifty yards of RFS, I walked past a similar line, but of those killed in the period since. There are no winners here.

Reviews

Quaker Worship: Reflections and explorations

by Kit Pearce

This is a thoughtful consideration of Quaker Meetings for Worship. It’s a new addition to the Kindlers series of devotional booklets, aimed at the curious – regardless of how little or how much experience of such worship the reader might have. James McCarthy draws upon fifty years of ‘practice’ and still remains intrigued by its mysterious and compelling quality. (The reviewer is similarly captivated after only a year’s exposure.)

Reviews

A good read? Tim Robertson and Friends look at Paradise Lost

by Tim Robertson and Friends

The end of 2024 brought a sense of accomplishment to a group of us at Friends House Meeting in London. 

The year marked 350 years since the death of John Milton, and the publication of Paradise Lost, his long narrative poem of Satan, God, Adam, and Eve. It sprang from the same tumultuous period that produced Quakerism, and since Milton, as a Cromwellian Puritan, opposed the same hierarchies as early Friends, we decided to spend the year reading the poem together. 

Features

Poem: Last guinea worm for the new year

by Dana Littlepage Smith

The idea is to turn the stick slowly, gentling the roundworm

onto it as it emerges, exiting from foot or leg. 

The task is to ease the metre of nematode out 

a little bit each day, to free the person from the disease.

News

Gaie Delap recalled to prison

by Rebecca Hardy A Bristol Quaker who was recalled to prison after a surveillance tag could not be fitted…
News

Nominations for 2025 Quaker award

by Rebecca Hardy The 2025 Quaker Truth and Integrity Award opened for nominations last week.
News

Historic Meeting house reopens

by Rebecca Hardy Come-To-Good Meeting House in Cornwall is celebrating the completion of repairs to its…
News

Wilmslow Friends create alternative nativity

by Rebecca Hardy Wilmslow Quakers used an invitation to create a nativity scene as an opportunity to…
News

Award for Quaker-led mediation scheme

by Rebecca Hardy There is ‘huge potential’ to grow peer mediation schemes in schools across the UK,…
Q-eye

Eye - 10 January 2025

by Elinor Smallman Winter woollies A postbox got a toasty topper from some talented Quakers last autumn.
Letters

Letters - 10 January 2025

by The Friend Communion In her letter about Meeting for Worship in the Friend of 6 December 2024,…

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