Issue 06-12-2024

The Friend

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Issue 06-12-2024

Thought for the week

Coming to rest: Ol Rappaport’s personal Thought for the Week

by Ol Rappaport

This I can say… 

For decades I was a supporter of assisted dying, informed by a lifetime’s experience of caring for the frail elderly. But recent events have led me to lay aside that support.

Features

Beyond doubt? Harvey Gillman wonders if Friends could be more positive about their faith

by Harvey Gillman

In a radio interview on the BBC Radio 4 Sunday programme, our Friend Tim Gee (general secretary to Friends World Committee for Consultation) described his coming back to Friends as ‘a mountain top experience’, an ecstatic experience of relationship with God. ‘I quaked,’ he said.

Features

Cause for concern: Roger Tuckett on autism exclusion

by Roger Tuckett

During worship at my Local Meeting in September, I was moved to speak and act under concern. This text summarises what I said: 

Features

On a roll: Klaus Huber ramps up the access

by Klaus Huber

In 2012, when I arrived in Bradford on Avon as the new Meeting house warden, I was pleased to see that there was wheelchair access and an accessible toilet. When opening the door to this, the sight was as follows: a toilet at the far end, and next to it a large space filled with traffic cones, a wheelchair ramp, and a folded-up wheelchair. 

Features

General Meeting (GM) for Scotland: Anthony Buxton & Piers Voysey report from Dundee (and online)

by Anthony Buxton & Piers Voysey

Our Meeting was held in Dundee Meeting House, and online (Anthony was online and Piers in Dundee). Being in the room has advantages: meeting new Friends, regaining acquaintances, and there was interesting side-chat about property, rewilding and the US election. But joining online saves the pre-dawn rise and late return – saves flagging energy.

Features

Building community: Epistle of the General Assembly of Quaker Council for European Affairs, November

by General Assembly of QCEA

‘In opening worship, hearing words from Joanna Macy, we were encouraged ‘to be absolutely present’.

Our workshop with Sarah Diedro Jordão on anti-racism and anti-oppressive behaviour started with a summary of the two previous sessions and then in small groups we considered what we can do to improve diversity, both in QCEA and also in our own communities and meetings. The recognition of the dominance of English was clear and became a theme throughout the two days. We look forward to including an agenda item at future General Assemblies (GA) in another European language, and to learning from those in our community who already have more focus on translation and interpreting in their meetings.

News

Glasgow Friends make sense of COP29

by Rebecca Hardy Glasgow Quakers explored community action beyond COP29 this week. The session ‘Making…
News

BYM laments US landmines in Ukraine

by Rebecca Hardy News that the US is supplying Ukraine with landmines has been described as a ‘bitter…
News

Sudbury Friends invite children to peace concert

by Rebecca Hardy Sudbury Friends invited local schoolchildren to two recent concerts honouring the Quaker…
News

Arrest warrants send ‘clear signal’, says BYM

by Rebecca Hardy Britain Yearly Meeting (BYM) said that arrest warrants issued by the International…
News

QAN revives calendars for 2025

by Rebecca Hardy The Quaker Arts Network (QAN) has released a calendar for 2025, drawing on its Loving…
Reviews

A Beginner’s Guide to Dying

by Daniel Clarke Flynn This incredibly rich 141-page book of gratitude, humour, and robust vitality, was written…
Features

Poem: God’s biscuits

by Linda Ewles Sunday school biscuits are jammy dodgers that stick round your teeth.…
Letters

Letters - 06 December 2024

by The Friend Meeting for Worship Surely now Quakers can put aside their focus on diversity,…
Q-eye

Eye - 06 December 2024

by Elinor Smallman On this day December of 1843 saw the twelfth edition of the then-monthly Friend appear. As…

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