Issue 25-10-2024

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Issue 25-10-2024

Thought for the week

Thought for the Week: Daniel Clarke Flynn makes a choice

by Daniel Clarke Flynn

We are each unique, temporary and necessary manifestations of creation. It’s written in our brains’ DNA, the most developed example of DNA that we know of.

Features

Aid memoir, part two: Anne Wade looks for the roots of war in childhood

by Anne Wade

What makes lovely little children become violent as they grow up? I do know that Adolf Hitler, and his successor as European invader, Vladimir Putin, were treated appallingly as children – as were my parents, and their parents before them. The Old Testament seems grossly unfair when it visits on children the iniquity of their fathers, but perhaps that was not so much a divine threat as an observation of what happens if societies do not unite to intervene where necessary – for instance to curb a father, or a leader, who exploits their power over their family, or people. Could the Peace Testimony and psychotherapy work together to help us with this?

Features

Across the board: Graham Taylor checks out a chess tournament at Friends House

by Graham Taylor

I first attended Westminster Meeting on a Tuesday lunchtime. I was startled by what I was told: ‘We have three Meetings per week. This one is half an hour, for people working in central London. Wednesday evening is three-quarters of an hour. There’s also a Sunday one for a whole hour, but you might find it easier to start with the shorter ones in case an hour’s silence is too long.’ 

Features

Make a peep: Margaret Roy on gender-based violence

by Margaret Roy

I scoured the Friend’s reporting on Britain Yearly Meeting for a word on violence against women and girls. Not a jot. The media is full of it, however. The government has declared its intent to tackle it, and even the royal family are in on it. Quakers? Not a peep.

News

Nobel Peace Prize for Hibakusha

by Rebecca Hardy

Quakers have welcomed the news that Nihon Hidankyo, a Japanese group of atomic bomb survivors, has won the 2024 Nobel Peace Prize

News

QSA backs Challenge Poverty Week

by Rebecca Hardy Quaker Social Action (QSA) ran a drop-in ‘Festival of Cookies’ last week, to target…
News

Friends call for end to two-child cap

by Rebecca Hardy Quakers were among 175 signatories from churches urging the chancellor to scrap the…
News

George Fox remembered in Scotland

by Rebecca Hardy Friends in Edinburgh heard about George Fox’s first steps into Scotland this month,…
News

Malton Meeting celebrates 200 years

by Rebecca Hardy Friends celebrated the 200th anniversary of Malton Meeting House this month by welcoming…
Reviews

The Ungodly

by Rebecca Leek Some plays ring on into the night, long after the curtain falls. You see their reflection…
Reviews

The Bulwark

by Simon Webb Two boys are wandering in the forest. One of them, Solon Barnes, uses his catapult to kill…
Features

Poem: Wildlife

by Steve Day Pond a plant or plant a pond? Yesterday I did both, dug into  the long grass lawn to…
Letters

Letters - 25 October 2024

by The Friend Trustees of MeetingsRichard Pashley’s belief (11 October) that charity law means…
Q-eye

Eye - 25 October 2024

by Elinor Smallman Putting pen to paperThe Friend is a magazine for Friends, and by Friends. You are our…

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