Issue 05-12-2025

The Friend

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Issue 05-12-2025

Thought for the week

Talk it up: Molly Scott Cato’s Thought for the Week

by Molly Scott Cato

With Christmas approaching, we are all going to be spending time with people we don’t see frequently. Maybe, like me, you are dreading somebody mentioning that they are considering voting for Reform, or repeating some of the divisive rhetoric that is in the air.

Features

Turning our tables: Wendy Pattinson advocates for a more ethical Quaker Hospitality

by Wendy Pattinson

In view of the harm done by the use of alcohol, tobacco and other habit-forming drugs, consider whether you should limit your use of them or refrain from using them altogether. Remember that any use of alcohol or drugs may impair judgment and put both the user and others in danger’ (Advices & queries 40).

Features

Green Feast 2025: Kerri Wright on ‘a celebration of Quaker community’

by Kerri Wright

This autumn has seen an inspiring wave of vegan Green Feast events across Britain Yearly Meeting. These have been organised by Quaker Vegan Witness to demonstrate how vegan practices can become a vital expression of Quaker witness. From intimate breakfast gatherings to vibrant open afternoons, the events have shown that the commitment to planetary stewardship and compassionate living resonate deeply within our Meetings.

Features

Quakers in Scotland: Robin Waterston reports

by Robin Waterston

Over 100 Friends met for an important November event. There have been discussions and discernments about reorganising our structures for many years. Can we make them more sustainable and release more creativity? Or are there other ways of improving the use of our resources? The initial proposal was that all four Area Meetings (AMs) here should join with General Meeting to form one unified body. 

Features

Many ways up the mountain: Finola O’Sullivan visits Pendle Hill & Pendle Hill

by Finola O’Sullivan

You wait twenty years for an opportunity to visit Pendle Hill, and then two come along at once!

Reviews

If Anyone Builds It, Everyone Dies: The case against superintelligent AI

by John Lampen

Friends World Committee for Consultation recently issued a statement about the use of Artificial Intelligence (AI). It is useful, but I was surprised to find no reference to the machines which can themselves design, build and programme the next generation of still more complex intelligences – sometimes called Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI).

News

Quakers reject new asylum restrictions

by Rebecca Hardy Quakers have rejected new government proposals that would make settlement more difficult…
News

Quaker governor faces questions

by Rebecca Hardy Questions have been raised about the leadership of a Quaker former governor of a youth…
News

HRPF appeal to plug funding gap

by Rebecca Hardy The Quaker-supported Human Rights Protection Fund (HRPF) has said its income is projected…
Features

Fix ‘narrow’ funeral benefits, says QSA

by Rebecca Hardy Quaker Social Action (QSA) has called for better government support with funeral costs, so…
News

Universalists explore sound and spirituality

by Rebecca Hardy The Quaker Universalist Group will explore how music and sound ‘connect us to the soul…
Q-eye

Eye - 05 December 2025

by Elinor Smallman Sculpted in StourbridgeThe felt Friends crafted by the children of Warwick Meeting (21…
Letters

Letters - 05 December 2025

by The Friend Testimonies It has been good to see a discussion in the pages of the Friend about our…

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