Issue 12-12-2025

The Friend

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Issue 12-12-2025

Thought for the week

Bless, bless: Gerard Guiton’s Thought for the Week

by Gerard Guiton

A Friend with knowledge of Iceland tells me that Icelanders usually say ‘Bless, bless’ when bidding people farewell. She says it confers something wholesome and healing when wishing others peace, safety and wellbeing on their journey. ‘Bless, bless’ also reminds me of the Beatitudes, and how these particular blessings are best read with their biblical Greek, Hebrew, and Aramaic versions in mind.

News

Meeting for Sufferings: December Meeting - part one

by Rebecca Hardy

Prison and Court Register, and other draft minutes

The morning session of 6 December opened with some disruption, as online participants found their Zoom links were invalid. After some no-doubt frantic messaging, a new link was sent, and online participants were let virtually into the Benjamin Lay room at Friends House for opening worship. Friends heard a reading from Advices & queries 17: ‘Do you respect that of God in everyone, though it may be expressed in unfamiliar ways and be difficult to discern?’

Features

The call out of Egypt: Rachel Muers reports from the World Council of Churches Conference on Faith and Order

by Rachel Muers

In October I attended the World Council of Churches’ Sixth World Conference on Faith and Order, in Wadi el Natrun, Egypt. I went in my capacity as a member of the Faith and Order Commission, to which I was nominated by Friends World Committee for Consultation. The conference, which was timed to coincide with the 1700th anniversary of the Council of Nicaea, took the theme ‘Where Now for Visible Unity?’ It brought together about 400 Christians from all over the world. I was one of three Quaker participants. 

Features

Epistle from the Quaker Council for European Affairs General Assembly, held 14-15 November

by QCEA General Assembly

Friends from fourteen of the seventeen member organisations of the Quaker Council for European Affairs (QCEA) were joined by staff and the new Friend-in-residence at Maison Quaker for their second Meeting of 2025. We felt privileged to spend time together in this beautiful building in the heart of Brussels.

Reviews

Ramping Up Rights: An unfinished history of British disability activism

by Simon Webb

The early pages of this book are enlivened by an account of the life of Rosa May Billinghurst (1875-1953). Known as the ‘Cripple Suffragette’, May chained herself to railings and broke windows with the best of them, but childhood polio meant she had to do it from a wheelchair-tricycle. May, whom Charlton-Dailey calls ‘badass’, hid window-breaking stones under a blanket over her knees, and was even known to charge the police in her activist chariot. 

News

Woodbrooke two years on from closure

by Rebecca Hardy Bournville Village Trust (BVT) is to spend over £7 million on its socially-rented homes…
News

Quakers uphold DRC

by Rebecca Hardy Partners of the Quaker Congo Partnership UK (QCP UK) have called for urgent humanitarian…
News

Quaker appeals climate conviction

by Rebecca Hardy A Quaker climate activist appealed her conviction last week after a judge threatened the…
News

Friends hold vigils for UN day

by Rebecca Hardy Friends supported the United Nations International Day of Solidarity with the Palestinian…
News

Quaker questionnaire on refugee support

by Rebecca Hardy Quaker Asylum and Refugee Network (QARN) has launched a questionnaire to find out what…
Q-eye

Eye - 12 December 2025

by Elinor Smallman An inspiration Jane King, of Devon Area Meeting, got in touch to share a moving encounter.…
Letters

Letters - 12 December 2025

by The Friend Convention Following on from Neil Johnson’s letter (‘Entry requirement’, 28…

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