Issue 22-08-2025

The Friend

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Issue 22-08-2025

Thought for the week

Practising vision: Daniel Clarke Flynn’s Thought for the Week

by Daniel Clarke Flynn

Four score and six years ago, I was brought into this life by power beyond myself, beyond my parents and the world I was born into. I have been maintained in life ever since by such power. 

Features

Seeds of Love: Sungsoo Kim on Mary Ingle Wright’s legacy in South Korea

by Sungsoo Kim

In the summer of 1953, as the Korean war drew to its devastating close, a young English woman stepped off a ship in Busan, South Korea. Mary Ingle Wright, just thirty years old, with a fresh medical degree, had volunteered to join the Friends Service Unit in one of the world’s most desolate places. What she found would shape her life, and plant seeds of Quaker faith that would flourish for generations.

Features

Harrowing and humbling: Jenny Haughton attends Friends Peace Team (FPT) training camp in Armenia

by Jenny Haughton

My experience of the recent Friends Peace Team (FPT) training camp in Armenia was both harrowing and humbling. Harrowing, to hear about the incredibly difficult and growing zones of conflict and division in Europe, Africa and the Middle East; and humbling, to hear directly from the people working in those communities to help alleviate oppression, prejudice and untold human suffering. 

Features

Children in Meeting: One Friend thinks they should stay

by Anonymous

We do not have a Children’s Meeting locally, although we do have all-age worship once a month. But recently an attender brought her young son along to one of our regular Meetings for Worship. She wanted her child to remain for the whole hour, but was told it was not permitted. The attender expressed criticism: she felt this was not very welcoming. I felt that I should uphold her and her son in this request. I put it to the Meeting: why was it not appropriate for a child to remain for the whole hour?

Features

Shower of blessing: Tony D’Souza washes away anger

by Tony D’Souza

I have not had a bath for over thirty years. Before you get ‘the ick’, let me explain. I lived in mainland Europe for years, and got used to having showers. When I got back home I had a shower installed and never looked back. Using a shower is now just common sense, and I find the idea of stewing in a bath a little disgusting. In fact it gives me ‘the ick’.

Features

Poem: Pina Bausch, yes, we are a curious people

by Steve Day

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Hello Pina, you are no longer dancing
in the Tao, not in the way you used to,
half lit in the thin gauze spaces staged in a good light.

News

Quakers arrested at Palestine Action ban protest

by Rebecca Hardy Britain Yearly Meeting (BYM) has joined four civil liberties organisations in urging the…
News

Quakers mark Joseph Rowntree centenary

by Rebecca Hardy Woodbrooke marked the centenary of Quaker Joseph Rowntree’s death with an event this…
News

Bristol Quakers hold vigil outside Elbit Systems

by Rebecca Hardy Quakers in Bristol have called on other faith groups to speak out against the ‘worsening…
News

BYM highlights community cohesion

by Rebecca Hardy Britain Yearly Meeting (BYM) has highlighted ways in which Quakers can help community…
Q-eye

Eye - 22 August 2025

by Elinor Smallman Just for fun ‘Tales of transformation’ fill the recently published Friends Quarterly,…
Letters

Letters - 22 August 2025

by The Friend Walking cheerfully Twelve years ago I found myself planning a long distance walk from…

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