Issue 14-03-2025

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Issue 14-03-2025

Thought for the week

On song: Alastair McIntosh’s Thought for the Week

by Alastair McIntosh

I felt sorry at the news this week that Britain is to shift funding from overseas aid to defence. As a Quaker, committed to nonviolence, you might expect me to say that. But my sorrow is not just linked to Russian aggression in Ukraine.

Features

Celebrating each other: Jennie Atherton & Juno Lee at YFGM

by Jennie Atherton & Juno Lee

Young Friends General Meeting (YFGM) had its first 2025 gathering at Edinburgh Meeting House from 14-16 February. A whopping ninety-two people attended, roughly thirty-five of whom were newcomers. This is almost fifteen more than the average number of attendees at our 2024 events, and the biggest turnout YFGM has seen in over two decades! We have not been to Scotland for a gathering since 2019, and were delighted to be returning. 

Features

The deep web: Rosemary Field facilitates worship

by Rosemary Field

For more than four years I’ve been a facilitator for online worship for Woodbrooke Europe & Middle East Section, for the thirty-minute Meetings at 7:00am on Tuesdays. That must mean that I’ve facilitated over 200 Meetings. 

Features

Wait, and see: Matt Rosen on Quaker Spring

by Matt Rosen

For a few years, I’ve been attending gatherings of Quaker Spring, a community of Friends from many countries and Quaker traditions who come together to listen to the inward Christ. Quaker Spring grew out of a concern of North American young adult Friends to know the depth of Christ’s presence and power. They had experienced the busyness of Yearly Meetings and conferences – the packed agendas, and intense responsibilities of role-holders – and they yearned for time left open to the Spirit’s movement. They hoped to be refreshed and renewed, and then led into a world in need of the healing power they had encountered. 

Reviews

Mediation and Other Forms of Alternative Dispute Resolution

by Mike Nellis

Restorative justice (RJ) is a subject that has been dear to Quaker hearts since the 1980s. It has either been conceived of ambitiously, as a non-punitive alternative to the prevailing criminal justice system, or, more commonly and mundanely, as an adjunct to existing criminal justice practices, whereby space is created for victim and offender (and sometimes their families) to engage in ways that adversarial processes deny them. 

Features

Poem: A universe. A word.

by Harvey Gillman

Love but not the same love

as one sitting here at my side

as one standing there

as the sun caressing the water

brother, mother, father, daughter

the living and the dead.

The gentle wild cat that sits where she will

on my willing, unwilling lap.

The old woman begging at the corner

the unexpected kindness of the passer-by

the stranger starving, dying, unspoken to.

News

Meeting for Sufferings: March 2025 afternoon session

by Rebecca Hardy Representation at ‘continuing’ Yearly Meeting The afternoon began with Siobhán Haire,…
News

US aid freeze hits Quaker school and hospital

by Rebecca Hardy The suspension of foreign aid from the US has hit Quaker programmes, such as support for…
News

Cathedrals divest from fossil fuels

by Rebecca Hardy Friends have joined a campaign to urge cathedrals to ditch banks that support fossil…
News

BYM slams Israel aid blockade

by Rebecca Hardy Britain Yearly Meeting (BYM) has strongly condemned Israel’s announcement on 2 March…
News

Quaker flats help youth homelessness

by Rebecca Hardy Norfolk & Waveney Quakers celebrated last month when one of their buildings was leased…
News

QCEA joins call to protect COs

by Rebecca Hardy Quaker Council for European Affairs (QCEA) has joined calls for the European Parliament to…
Q-eye

Eye - 14 March 2025

by Elinor Smallman On this day Competitive commutes appear in the 14 March 1947 edition of the Friend.…
Letters

Letters - 14 March 2025

by The Friend Ukraine As an eighteen-year-old National Serviceman in 1958, I took part in a NATO…

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