Issue 16-02-2024

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A problem shared: Linda Murgatroyd’s Thought for the week

FREE 15 Feb 2024 | by Linda Murgatroyd

A few Friends from Wandsworth and Wimbledon met recently to share our responses to the conflict in Gaza. It had been much on our minds but, wary of causing unintentional offence or hurt, and not knowing quite what to say, most of us had avoided the subject. Trusting our worship-sharing...

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Hear, hear: Kate Graham on the value of a ‘mini clearness committee’

15 Feb 2024 | by Kate Graham

‘Being listened to, being heard, is like an oasis in a desert.’ | Photo: by Sharon Waldron on Unsplash

Sometimes I feel like everyone is talking, but no one is listening. I sort my friends into those who I find myself talking to who listen to me, and those to whom I tend to listen. Those who talk happily, stop for a moment to ask ‘Oh, and what about...

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Course of action: Georgeanne Lamont & Diana Lampen

15 Feb 2024 | by Georgeanne Lamont & Diana Lampen

'While the weekend was short and flew by, it charged up my batteries and created a new network of friends and colleagues...' | Photo: Course attendees at Charney courtesy of John Lampen

It is proper that most of the money donated to helping refugees and asylum seekers benefits them directly; but this means there is little provision for the needs of those who provide that help. They are often isolated, stressed, and suffering from unfeeling and shifting official policies. They are sometimes...

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Come to grief: Lloyd Pritchard’s enormity of inadequacy

15 Feb 2024 | by Lloyd Pritchard

‘I am writing this in the evening after his funeral, wrecked and devastated with grief.’ | Photo: by K. Mitch Hodge on Unsplash

All I can offer you for your grief is my inadequacy for the task of relating to it.

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Cracking a book: Elizabeth Coleman on how Quakers should approach the Bible

15 Feb 2024 | by Elizabeth Coleman

‘Don’t read the Bible expecting Jesus to be like us.’ | Photo: by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

Some Quakers have little knowledge of biblical criticism. So how should we read the Bible? It is a collection of books that say many different, often contradictory, things.

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Friends pilot peer mediation scheme

FREE 15 Feb 2024 | by Rebecca Hardy

'We quickly filled up and have a waiting list for another training in the summer – clearly showing schools feel there’s a need.’ | Photo: Peer mediation trainees (Jane Harries)

Britain Yearly Meeting (BYM)’s peace education team piloted a three-day sustainable model for peer mediation training last month.

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Inter Faith Network faces imminent closure

FREE 15 Feb 2024 | by Rebecca Hardy

Friends are being urged to write to MPs and sign a petition to save the Inter Faith Network (IFN) from closure.

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Quaker socialists discuss private schools

15 Feb 2024 | by Rebecca Hardy

The Quaker Socialist Society (QSS) discussed how state schools and Quaker private schools can promote ‘life-long Quaker values’ last month.

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European elections a ‘turning point’, says QCEA

15 Feb 2024 | by Rebecca Hardy

Polls suggest that the European electorate is increasingly concerned with climate change, poverty, and public health, Quaker Council for European Affairs (QCEA) has said.

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Peace cranes from Hiroshima

15 Feb 2024 | by Rebecca Hardy

Quakers were involved in a ‘Trees of Peace’ installation on display in Coventry Council House last month; it will be touring Coventry libraries for the rest of 2024. The installation features more than 1,000 multi-coloured origami cranes handcrafted by school pupils in Hiroshima and a local school in Coventry. The project was...

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Long-sighted: Rosemary Field on love after death

15 Feb 2024 | by Rosemary Field

Last month, Kate McNally beautifully described her long-lasting relationship with her husband, and her knowledge of the unconditional nature of his love and God’s love (Thought for the Week, 26 January). I was similarly fortunate in a marriage of over forty years. Sadly, Julian, my husband, died five years ago....

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Eye - 16 February 2024

15 Feb 2024 | by Elinor Smallman

A great people? A Friend from Scarborough shared a story of seeking a sight. Dilys Cluer told Eye: ‘Reading about the 400th anniversary this year, I thought about George Fox and remembered that in 2022 I ensured that my husband and I followed in his footsteps by climbing Pendle Hill before...

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Friends’ Meeting House Pakefield

15 Feb 2024 | by Patricia Peters

Too small to be called a hall a house in an overgrown garden, where old horizontal slabs hold faint names of the long dead.

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Letters - 16 February 2024

15 Feb 2024 | by The Friend

Medicines shortage The current medicines shortage in the UK is unsatisfactory, unfair and, for some people, unsafe. Among others, patients needing hormone replacement therapy, oral antidiabetics, antiepileptics and some cancer treatments have increasingly found their medication unavailable. Over 100 drugs are reported to have ‘out of stock’ problems, double the number...

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